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Everything we know about 'Only Murders in the Building' Season 4
Everything we know about 'Only Murders in the Building' Season 4
The case of who killed Ben Glenroy is closed, and with it, another sensational season
2023-10-04 02:52
Influencer sparks debate for praising boyfriend who told her she's 'not that pretty'
Influencer sparks debate for praising boyfriend who told her she's 'not that pretty'
A popular blogger and OnlyFans star has sparked a fierce debate online after praising her boyfriend for giving his “honest opinion” about her looks. The commentator, who goes by the name Aella, revealed her partner’s blunt assessment of her appearance in response to a tweet from another content creator. In her message, @ThePostsOffice wrote: "Being a girl’s boyfriend is all about committing to the bit that she is a 10/10 and the most beautiful woman you have ever seen." But Aella, a polyamorous former escort, admitted this hadn’t been her experience, replying: “One of my partners once was like 'you're not that pretty' during a tender moment. I rolled over in the fetal position and groaned for like an hour.” However, she continued: “He went and made me an I'm sorry card out of construction paper and markers and stickers.” Alongside her tweet were two pictures of the homemade apology letter, in which the man wrote: “I’m sorry I told you you’re not that pretty during a tender moment and that I made you doubt that I ever desired you. “Before forsaking my cultural wisdom, I should have considered how it would feel and been ready with [kisses].” Aella’s post racked up more than 17.2 million views and 7,100 retweets in a week, as fellow X/Twitter users shared their horror at the partner’s comment. “If any ‘partner’ of mine said that to me in bed I'd kick them out of the door immediately and never allow them to see me again,” one wrote. “Life is too short to tolerate a ‘lover’ who feels like you're anything less than the prettiest person they've ever seen.” “Omg he doesn't even say 'sorry for my cruel attempt at humour, you are the most attractive girl I've ever seen',” noted another. “He says 'sorry I forsook my cultural wisdom and told you the truth'... OUCH boy!” “Where is he getting the idea that this is the objective truth?” asked a third. Aella responded by defending her man (who she's still dating), writing: “To be fair he said it in response to me mourning that [people] are not incentivized to be honest about each other's physical appearances, he was trying to be helpful by giving me his honest opinion since I wanted [people] to be more honest.” She then added: “He's one of the kindest, most caring men I've dated! He was trying to be honest with me when he thought I really wanted that, he was genuinely trying to help me. I appreciate that and I find the entire event pretty endearing. “[In my opinion] people who don't say true things out of love because they're afraid of hurting me are more cowardly and I prefer not to date those people. I'm very much a ‘seek out the painful truth and sob’ kind of person both in general and in relationships.” She then shared a text message the boyfriend sent her in response to the public outcry over his behaviour, in which he wrote that he had “half a mind to [...] include a non-makeup’d photo of [her] and be like ‘look, she is fairly pretty and very attractive and gorgeous when she tries, but that’s different from being effortlessly pretty all the time as some girls in fact are.” He went on: “Lying injures everyone’s ability to trust truthtelling and the thing where lots of women are deeply insecure about their appearance in an inconsolable way is *built out of* all your lies.” However, he conceded: “I admit error both in misunderstanding what she was asking for and in offering it without triple-checking first and in offering it without a bunch of support and reassurance prepared in advance.” Yet, his defence did little to assuage people’s concerns and disapproval. In a lengthy rebuttal, one commentator pointed out: “Beauty is subjective. Everyone has wildly different tastes and things they find attractive. But he’s applying black-and-white thinking to your beauty and speaking from a place of ‘truth’ (during an intimate moment, no less) when in reality… It’s not *the* truth, because there isn’t one truth for beauty. It’s *his* truth.” “There are other men who’d be 100 per cent honest, sharing *their* truth, that they find you stunning.” The woman, called Elle Beecher, continued: “I take major issue when people excuse their careless comments under the guise of ‘truth,’ like they’re some omniscient narrator who can speak from an objective place. You’re ‘not that pretty’ to him. He can’t speak for anyone else. “My gut reaction is that there are so many men who’d happily fulfil your needs and find you stunning, and tell you that in full honesty… so why date a guy who doesn’t?” Concluding her monologue, Elle added: “I support you and your choices fully. But this story makes me sad. I understand that you want to be with someone truthful (as do I), but I wonder why that can’t be with someone who says you’re beautiful and means it.” Sign up for our free Indy100 weekly newsletter Have your say in our news democracy. Click the upvote icon at the top of the page to help raise this article through the indy100 rankings.
2023-09-12 21:25
Microsoft attempts to pick apart US legal argument against deal to buy Activision
Microsoft attempts to pick apart US legal argument against deal to buy Activision
By Greg Bensinger SAN FRANCISCO Arguing for the government on Tuesday in its legal fight against Microsoft's $69
2023-06-28 05:19
Who is Mark Mechikoff? California man arrested for fatally stabbing woman and posting video on social media
Who is Mark Mechikoff? California man arrested for fatally stabbing woman and posting video on social media
Mark Mechikoff was arrested two hours later after the authorities tracked him in San Jose
2023-07-29 05:59
Who is Mark Valencia? Vodka-fueled argument over bad haircut ends in double homicide
Who is Mark Valencia? Vodka-fueled argument over bad haircut ends in double homicide
Mark Valencia was convicted for the murders of Steven Singer and Eva Aragon at a residence in Pecos, just outside Santa Fe, New Mexico
2023-08-21 18:18
Viral video shows xQc walking away from fan, Internet crowns it 'funny AF'
Viral video shows xQc walking away from fan, Internet crowns it 'funny AF'
The viral video shows xQc walking away from a fan when he refers to him by his GTA RP character's name
2023-10-20 20:50
Braves rumors: Culberson a free agent, Freeman milestone, Duvall trade?
Braves rumors: Culberson a free agent, Freeman milestone, Duvall trade?
Braves rumors: Charlie Culberson chooses free agencyThe Braves did Charlie Culberson a bit dirty on Father's Day when they designated him for assignment just before his father was scheduled to throw out the first pitch. That's just a reminder that baseball is a business. Atlanta needed t...
2023-06-27 10:45
Mexico church: Many trapped after Tamaulipas roof collapse
Mexico church: Many trapped after Tamaulipas roof collapse
The roof fell in during a baptism at an afternoon mass, local media reports say.
2023-10-02 07:49
Brazil's GDP rises more than expected in first quarter boosted by farm sector
Brazil's GDP rises more than expected in first quarter boosted by farm sector
By Marcela Ayres BRASILIA Brazil's economy rebounded more than expected in the first quarter, powered by a strong
2023-06-01 21:58
The Supreme Court keeps a Missouri law on hold that bars police from enforcing federal gun laws
The Supreme Court keeps a Missouri law on hold that bars police from enforcing federal gun laws
The Supreme Court is keeping a Missouri law on hold that bars police from enforcing federal gun laws, rejecting an emergency appeal from the state
2023-10-21 04:21
Egypt Downgraded Deeper Into Junk by S&P on Currency Squeeze
Egypt Downgraded Deeper Into Junk by S&P on Currency Squeeze
Egypt was downgraded for the second time this month, as the North African nation struggles with a severe
2023-10-21 13:56
Andrew Tate: 'King of masculinity' mocks tragic deaths of Titanic sub victims, says 'if wifey needs me, I'll be right there'
Andrew Tate: 'King of masculinity' mocks tragic deaths of Titanic sub victims, says 'if wifey needs me, I'll be right there'
Andrew Tate commented on the death of the victims of the Titan submersible tragedy
2023-06-24 15:17